Sunday, January 18, 2009

Women Chaplaincy in Review

During the 2008 WUIM Conference, one session was dedicated to looking at the 1990 Women Chaplain Task Force Report and Recommendations. The attached report was submitted in January 2009 to the Chief and Deputy Chief of Chaplains as well as the Commander and Vice Commander at Air Force Personnel Center at Randolph AFB. It reflects the candid and sometimes animated discussion that took place.

It is the prayer of our organization that these recommendations will be seriously considered and implemented by the Air Force leadership. It is also our prayer that if and when women chaplains experience harassment and/or discrimination that they will feel empowered to take action. Our Chaplain Corps is too small to allow members to be injured by unchecked illegal behavior.

For those of us who have been in uniform as chaplains for 20+ years we have served with both the best our male colleagues have to offer and some of their worst. Unfortunately, the bad experiences causes more damage than the good ones can counter. And in 2009 it is time that all unacceptable behavior within our Chaplain Corps be dealt with swiftly and justly.

Questions regarding the content of the report may be submitted to any of WUIM executive leadership. Those members include:
Executive Director: Elaine Henderson
Assistant Director: Cherri Wheeler
Secretary/Treasurer: Sharon Freeto
Training Coordinator: Karen Stocks
Chair Emeritus: Lorraine Potter
Air Force Women Chaplains: 1990-2008
November 2008 Conference Revisited the 1990 Task Force Findings

Brief History

In 1988 HQ SAC Command Chaplain, Ch, Col Donald Ullrich published a point paper entitled “Career Progression for Female Chaplains.” The issue was defined as follows: “Career progression for female chaplains appears more difficult than for male chaplains. Whereas this may not be influenced by conscious factors, a review is required to assess the data on female chaplains.”

In 1990, the Air Force Chief of Chaplains sponsored a Minority Task Force meeting for female chaplains. “The purpose of this meeting is to identify both positive and negative perceptions of female chaplains, to share experiences of ministering in the Air Force Chaplaincy and to develop written suggestions for pastoral care of female chaplains.” This meeting was attended by all but one CONUS stationed active duty (AD) woman chaplain. From that meeting a two page “recommendation for action” paper was submitted to the Chief of Chaplains (See Attachment 1).

There were two primary concerns listed by the Task Force with numerous recommendations. The issues included:
1) sexual harassment; and,
2) inclusiveness/discrimination.
It was noted in this report that: “Our biggest concern is sexual harassment, because of its pervasiveness, depth, and destructiveness.”

January 1990 Task Force “Recommendations for Action” Revisited

At the 18th meeting of women chaplains in November 2008 near San Antonio, TX these two primary concerns/issues were addressed as part of the overall curriculum. This year’s gathering included women chaplains who are retired but served during the time of the initial task force; AD members who were either on AD at the time of the task force or who entered AD since 1990. There were also members of reserve components present, again, some of whose career dates back to the original task force and others whose does not.

After reviewing the 1990 Task Force documents an open discussion was conducted in which each of the two issues were examined in light of today’s culture regarding harassment and discrimination. The following observations and recommendations are submitted:

Observations
Sexual Harassment as described in the 1990 documents is no longer prevalent. This is based upon experiences of those present: few, if any, inappropriate jokes; no overt hostile environment; or transparent propositions. It was believed the reason for this change was due to the response to the “Tailhook” episode that not only shook the Navy but all of DoD. It is also believed that in the 18 years since the task force met there are now accepted barriers and boundaries established in our society and culture. Military members are given more education regarding what constitutes harassment and are made aware that harassment is career ending.

Though there is good news in the harassment arena, the news did not remain positive related to issues of Discrimination. The following examples were shared as to the types of discrimination encountered in today’s AF Chaplain Corps.

1. Covert discrimination is now the “acceptable sexual harassment.”
2. Women Chaplains are consistently given a heavier work load than their male counterparts; they must “prove themselves.”
3. OPRs do not accurately reflect workload and duty descriptions.
4. Women are still kept out of the preaching rotations.
5. Job descriptions are “tailored” for the woman (i.e., she will attend PWOC retreats).
6. Women traditionally get all the “problem” people and programs.
7. “Proven” women chaplains are often sent to chapel staffs “to clean up” after a male colleague is fired (i.e., “yet he received a PCS medal and rewarded with one of very few staff positions!”).
8. Some supervisors and commanders use their religious beliefs (“a personal matter”) to limit women chaplains’ jobs, school opportunities, and/or assignments.

Additional Observation: From 1973-2004 nearly 80% of AD women chaplains missed at least one promotion to either Major or Lt Colonel, with several women subsequently promoted above-the-zone. In 35 years of women in the chaplaincy, there are only four who were promoted to Colonel!

Recommendations
1. An Assessment be conducted by AFPC/DP and AF/HC with an eye to identifying possible gender and theological biases effecting chaplain duty tasks and responsibilities; the writing of OPRs; promotion recommendations; and, selection for professional education. Consideration would include assessing possible systemic issues that would negatively impact promotion opportunities (i.e., line officer knowledge of HC career progression, including how and where HC differs from the line; commanders need to scrutinize for potential gender and/or religious bias of their supervising chaplains).

2. Aggressively educate endorsers concerning the requirements and acceptable standards to serve in the military as it relates to working with women as colleagues and in leadership. Actively recruit chaplains whose endorsers are committed to supporting AF policies regarding women in ministry.

3. New EAD women chaplains are sent via TDY to the annual Women Chaplains’ Conference/Retreat within their first 2 years of coming on AD.
4. A current roster of women chaplains in all components to be forwarded to the senior ranking AD woman chaplain annually NLT 31 Aug each year to ensure Women Chaplains are afforded mentoring, educational, and retreat opportunities with other women chaplains.

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

WUIM Retreat - Nov 2008

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Devotional Thought from Retreat - Nov 2008

Josephine entertained and challenged the retreat participants with a worship service and sermon from Luke 10:38-42. The question asked repeatedly was “How urgent is it?” Ch Pinkney introduced new meanings to old AF acronyms that we could all find useful.

SOW: Statement of Wisdom (Using wisdom to care for oneself)
UCC: United Control Center (bringing others for healing and renewal)
ORI: Open Regarding Injury (Willing to talk about your hurts in the Chaplain Corps)
POC: Prayer of Confession (Trusting others and willing to share personal information)
CC: Call of Commitment (Committed to encouraging one (1) person to attend conference next year)

We need to be about caring for ourselves and each other. We need to be about claiming our joys and hurts within the Chaplain Corps. We need to be about getting and keeping our priorities right. We need to always ask the question, “How urgent is it anyway?”

How Did I Do It?

By Ch, Capt Jamie Martin

How did I receive orders to attend the Women United in Ministry Conference? I asked and here is exactly what I said to my Wing Chaplain and my Vice Commander with a courtesy copy to Ch Elaine Henderson and my Wing Commander.

Good Day Sir,

I am requesting attendance at the Women's Ministry Conference for Air Force Chaplains 10-13 Nov 08. After just completing the ORE and with the upcoming ORI, I hope that you and the commanders can see the need for me to be cared for in this way and have this networking and mentoring opportunity with senior leaders (present and retired). It is being held in New Braunfels, Texas, which is 33 miles from San Antonio. I am requesting to use 4 AT days.
Please respond to my personal email as well, if approved, I must contact the POC, Ch, Col, Sharon Freeto, USAF Retired -- NOW AT 830-613-1007. E-mail:
belongashabi@texas-skies.com as soon as possible. Please do not hesitate to contact Ch Henderson from Springfield Air National Guard base below for further information.


-------His Reply (he cut and pasted information from Ch Henderson’s original e-mail) ------
Approved

Mode of Transportation: Commercial Plane or Privately Owned Vehicle

Quarters: Included in $350 registration fee ($300 for LIFE MEMBERS)

Meals: Included in registration fee (3 meals Tuesday, 3 meals Wednesday, 2 meals Thursday)

REGISTRATION FEE: Make check payable to Women United in Ministry (PO Box 1532, Blanco TX 78606)

Care for the Caregivers

By Ch, Capt Olga Westfall

It was my first time coming to the WUIM retreat. I’ve been waiting for it since the day I heard about it. My denomination does not have annual denominational conferences and for the past five years of being on active duty, I began to feel like a drying well, always giving away but not getting refilled. I needed to get in touch with other clergy women serving in the Air Force to be spiritually refreshed. And I was so glad that I came! It was so encouraging to be in the presence of Godly women who have such a wealth of experience and dedication to their calling!

Brigadier General Toreaser A. Steele (USAF, Retired) was an incredible speaker and broke it all down to help us to evaluate our calling and our spiritual growth. I had a special time with God that week, away from the business of home and family (I have 3 little sons and a husband); away from work; away from the things I am used to here in New Mexico. It was good to look at things from a different angle.

Every step of the conference was a blessing. One of the things I would like to highlight was the visit to the Air Force Personnel Center at Randolph Air Force Base for a Record Review. As I was checking my records, I was surprised to find out that I had only one OPR. Due to that visit, I could update my records and add all my medals and missing OPRs. I am very glad that we had that visit scheduled as a part of our retreat. It is always good to know what is happening with your records and keep track of them.

As I look back to the time of the retreat, I think of the ladies I met, the encouragement and support I have received and the special touch from God I have experienced during that time. There is so much we can learn from each other!

Sister, What Shall I Call You?

By Ch, Capt Ruth N. Segres

You are my sister; a sister in ministry and in military. So, what shall I call you? You are my sister and we are friends, however, your rank is superior to mine. So, what shall I call you? You are my sister; we laugh, cry, pray, and journey together, but my rank is inferior to yours. So, sister, what shall I call you?

In the military there are a few women in the Chaplain’s Corps. The overwhelming majority of our communication is electronic. Notwithstanding, there is a connection that we share with each other that offers a level of comfort that says, “If my sister needs me, she can contact me and I will respond.” Because of time differences, TDYs, PCSs, and taskings that response may be delayed but never denied.

Being afforded such a comfort has the propensity to breed familiarity; and in this case familiarity can and does breed friendship. But how many of us normally call our friends by their title and last name? We don’t.

As sisters in military ministry there is a unique tension with which we live and contend. The tension is knowing how and when to call each other by what name. It is understood, perhaps one of those unwritten rules, that those of superior rank, and those of equal rank have the privilege to call each other by their first name. Unless otherwise informed, those of lesser rank cannot assume that privilege. That is a privilege that must be given on an individual basis.

Perhaps Ch, Capt Lipstick has been given the privilege by Ch, Lt Col Highheels to call her by her first name. Is that privilege setting one up for success or failure? It depends. Ch, Highheels should ensure that that the privilege given is not a blanket privilege to call other chaplains by their first name whose rank is superior. Ch, Highheels should also ensure that it is known when it is inappropriate to use her first name. Clear boundaries must be set and the rules of engagement must be made known. When in settings with other military personnel, social or otherwise, it is always right and safer to use titles.

As sisters in military ministry we want to ensure we are always setting each other up for success. To be given the privilege by a superior officer to call her by her first name is an honor and should be treated as such. We live with a tension: You are my sister; a sister in ministry and in military. So, what shall I call you? You are my sister and we are friends, however, your rank is superior to mine. So, what shall I call you? You are my sister, we laugh, cry, pray, and journey together, but my rank is inferior to yours. So, sister, what shall I call you? When in doubt err on the side of caution -- use her title.

Mother, Where Are You?

Ruth N. Segres ©

The path is not as visible
As in days gone by.
Many didn’t come after you
It’s not that we didn’t want to or didn’t try.

You didn’t come back often
To expose us to where you had gone.
So, grass grew and the path was covered
Because it did not become worn.

Others like me stood on the field’s edge
Not knowing how to get across.
We hoped for and anticipated your return
And prayed that we wouldn’t remain lost.

We would at times venture into the field
But the grass eventually covered our head.
We would often become turned around
As we looked for the path that you had tread.

We no longer heard your voice in the distance
Saying, “This is the way you must come.”
We could hear no songs floating in the air
Eventually, we no longer heard your hum.

But many years we waited
Longing for your return.
Hopes faltering and failing
While wrestling with our concerns.

Concerns about our future
For we had no motherly advice.
No mother to tell us the truth
That being a woman minister comes at a great price.

Mother, you are my chosen teacher
A role model I need you to be.
I need your guidance and advice
I want you to mentor me.

Mother, where are you?
Will you once again return?
My heart aches for your wisdom
There is so much I need to learn.

At the omega of your life
On whom will you lay your hand?
On whom will you bestow the blessing
To continue your God given plan?

No longer, withhold your blessing
With you, I am willing to come.
I want you to lead the way
Because eventually I may have to lead some.

But if I know not the path through the field
Generations may be lost.
I want to come through the field mother
I am willing to pay the cost.

Mother, where are you?

Ministry Through Mentoring

By Ch, Lt Col Cherri Wheeler

Mentoring is a word that either evokes fond memories of an effective and meaningful relationship or the horrors of a relationship gone awry. Mentoring can be a formal or informal relationship. It can take place among peers or as most often viewed as a person senior in age or position mentoring a person who is junior in age or position.

I have had the privilege over the last year to be in an informal mentoring relationship with several of the women chaplains in the DC area. We meet for lunch as a group every two months or so. The group includes active duty, Guard and IMAs. Over the past year I have had the opportunity to help colleagues prepare OPRs for their bosses and allow others to vent and process career opportunities or the lack therein. I have also listened to my colleagues pass on sage advice over lunch that was meant for the junior member yet it was a tool I tucked in my toolbox as well.


Having enjoyed this mentoring relationship, one in Colorado with the chaplains stationed in Denver and Colorado Springs, and at Pope with other women in leadership I realized the importance of professional women gathering periodically for personal, professional, and spiritual nurturing. At the 2008 Conference the topic of mentoring was brought up as a next step in realizing the goals of Women United in Ministry (WUIM). To that end, the WUIM would like to extend the opportunity for you to participate in a mentoring program; women chaplains mentoring women chaplains.


The concept is fairly simple and straightforward. We are looking for senior women (Majors through Flag Officer) who are willing to be mentors. Then we are looking for women (all grades) who want to be in a mentoring relationship. The executive board will help determine pairings based on a compatibility survey we will send to all participants. For instance, if being geographically close to the mentor is a number one priority then we want to match you with someone close; yet if being with someone who has similar faith or cultural background is more important that information can be inputted and will be given highest priority during the pairings. The bottom line, the WUIM leadership wants to match those who want to participate with the best possible mentor and will strive to match everyone’s priorities.


Once the pairings are made and everyone is notified the mentored person will make contact with her mentor and set the parameters of the relationship; how formal or informal, learning contract, goals/objectives, etc…. The basic understanding in all mentoring relationships is confidentiality of the members and no-fault clause which will allow either party to end the mentoring relationship during the next year or before the contract expires (in case of a formal learning contract). We would ask that if the relationship is terminated that it is accomplished professionally (let the other person know that it is over vs just not answering calls or emails.) We are a small group and want to continue to be a safe place for women chaplains to grow.

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Prayer Request & Celebrations

Prayer Requests
- Ch Floretta Watkins mother died Aug 28
- Ch Rhonda Cushman’s dad died October 10 and Rhonda experienced a job change on November 30.
- Ch Sandy Thomas’s mother died December 10
- Ch Rochelle Coles, Ch Sherrol James, Ch Eusabia Rios, Ch Sarah Schechter and Ch Deborah Hughley are deployed
- Ch Rachel David just got a short notice deployment and leaves this month.
- Ch Ruth Segres fell during a base exercise. Her left hand is multi-colored, swollen, and in a brace. Pray for a speedy recovery.

Celebrations
- Ch Sarah Shirley has a new job – in DC – working with Ch Cherri Wheeler
- Ch Karen Stocks is going to be the POC for our conference in 2009 – SAVE THE DATES
(2-5 November 2009)
- Our conference in 2010 will be our 20th anniversary since the first gathering of USAF
Women Chaplains! (SAVE THESE DATES, TOO! 1-4 November 2010)
- All active duty AF chaplains can receive e-mail by using FIRST.LAST@us.af.mil – YIPPEE!!!!! Saves us from keeping up with those e-mails. What about the rest of us trying to do that with yahoo or gmail or hotmail, etc……
- Ch Myrtle Bowen’s dad’s surgery was successful in September 2008
- Ch Christy Sorrow is now a teacher! 7th and 8th grade math lab, history and physics! (Nov 2008)
- Ch Laura Adelia is transferring from AFRC to the AZ Air National Guard.
- Ch Rhonda Cushman is in CPE and has another chaplain at her ANG unit so she can now share ANG responsibilities
- Ch Linda Olson will be retiring from active duty in July 2009. She and husband, Mickey, are looking forward to the change. She has been accepted into a CPE Residency Program in Palo Alto CA. Their children and grandson are within 30 minutes. AND grandson,
Caleb, is expecting a sister in April.